Bloom Where You’re Planted
Former First Lady of California Sharon Davis shares secrets to mastering the art of listening, thriving through challenges, and excelling at every stage of life
As this new year begins, it’s a time of reflection, anticipation, and perhaps some mixed emotions. It’s in moments like these that wisdom from those who’ve walked challenging paths becomes especially meaningful. That’s why my conversation with Sharon Davis, former First Lady of California, Board Director & Businesswoman, feels so timely and resonant.
At 70, Sharon’s life is a testament to resilience, adaptability, intentionality, and the power of showing up. In our discussion, she shares her perspectives on finding common ground, navigating challenges, and embracing the art of aging gracefully.
Excel at Every Opportunity
From her early days as a flight attendant to her time in California’s governor’s mansion, Sharon emphasizes the value of excelling at every stage of life. Her mother-in-law’s advice to “bloom where you’re planted” became a guiding principle for navigating life’s twists and turns with grace and determination while mastering the art of excelling under pressure. Her message? Every role matters, and thriving where you are lays the foundation for greater opportunities.
“Part of aging is to age well, and the way to age well is to stay healthy… find a way to bloom wherever you find yourself.”
The Power of Listening
Sharon believes that bridging divides—political or otherwise—starts with active listening. In a polarized world, finding common ground is more important than ever. She shares how listening with intention fosters understanding and collaboration—a skill that proved invaluable during her time as First Lady and beyond. This approach, she believes, is key to bridging divides and fostering meaningful collaboration—a lesson that feels particularly poignant as we look ahead.
“Listening, and really listening… not thinking, ‘What’s my answer?’ but really being open to what people are telling you, even when it’s nonsense.”
Resilience through Adversity
Life is full of setbacks, but Sharon’s perspective is clear: “You can be defeated in life, but it doesn’t have to defeat you.” After her husband’s recall as governor, she and Gray chose to embrace new opportunities rather than dwell on the past. Her mindset—to move forward with determination and seek support when needed—is a testament to her enduring resilience. She encourages us to view obstacles as stepping stones, not dead ends. Her reflections on overcoming political and personal challenges remind us that strength lies in how we choose to respond to adversity.
“You can be defeated in life, but it doesn’t have to defeat you. That’s your choice.”
The Art of Discernment
A steadfast proponent for children’s health and education, Sharon emphasizes the importance of teaching discernment, especially to our children. We talked about the challenges of distinguishing fact from opinion and navigating today’s digital deluge. She advocates for fostering critical thinking skills, both in schools and at home, to prepare future leaders who can engage thoughtfully with the world around them, and urges us to invest in public education to ensure future generations are equipped with critical thinking skills to navigate a world saturated with information.
“We have to teach kids how to discern information… to identify what is valid and what is not.”
The Role of Women in Shaping the Future
Sharon’s reflections on women’s contributions are both inspiring and grounding. She spoke of the different perspectives women bring to leadership and how every role—whether in the home or the boardroom—is vital. She believes empowering women at all levels is key to creating a balanced and thriving society.
“If you’re a mother who cares for children at home, you’re contributing as much as a CEO running a company.”
Aging Well and Living Intentionally
Sharon’s take on aging is both inspiring and practical: “The way to age well is to stay healthy—physically, mentally, and emotionally.” She shares her commitment to intentional living, highlighting how prioritizing health and well-being creates a foundation for thriving at every stage of life.
A Call to Serve
Above all, Sharon’s story is a call to action. Whether through public service, advocacy, or simply showing up for others, she reminds us of the profound impact we can have. About public service she encourages, ”If you have an opportunity to serve, go for it. It’s extraordinary and fulfilling.”
In a time of change and uncertainty, Sharon Davis’s wisdom is a grounding force. Her stories inspire us to lead with courage, rise above challenges, and approach life with intentionality. This episode is not just about one woman’s journey—it’s about the values we can all embody as we step into a new year.
I invite you to listen to this episode and reflect on how Sharon’s insights might resonate with your own life. Let her words be a guide as you navigate your next steps, whether personal, professional, or societal. Together, let’s light the way toward a brighter and more connected future.
